FAQs for the week of April 1
I am not a good person. I have loads of weaknesses. But lately I got very scared! I was wondering if I’ll be able to make it good in this birth in Bhakti ?
PujyaShri Maharajshri says that it’s with Ram KRIPA that one is able to look inside and see ones own faults. Gurujans say that we in general are busy finding faults in others, which is a cause of grave concern. But to see faults in oneself is KRIPA. Pujya Maharajshri suggests that we should take sankalps of say one week , praying for the removal of the negativity. He says , promise in front of Ram that for one week I will not be angry. For two days we’ll be ok, but the third day we’ll fall. He says, get up and get started again ! Ask Prabhu for shakti for bal. Tell Him your helplessness and try. So when one week is successful, go for another week. In this manner, try each of the negativity that is seen inside, till all are cleared off ! Pujya Maharajshri says that Ram Mantra is so powerful that it is an auto cleanser.
Pujya Swamiji Maharajshri says that one should have deep faith that, now that I have Ram Naam, I will definitely improve. Ram Naam will ward off all negativities and I will attain Lord’s abode, ‘Param dham!’ Strong unshakable faith is the foundation of the path of devotion and doubt the greatest enemy!
Another aspect of these faults are what Gurujans explain is that we identify ourselves with the body mind and intellect. But we are pure Soul. This Soul is covered with illusion and hence we consider ourselves dirty with filthy minds. Constant Ram Naam, billions of Ram Naam and complete surrender can remove this illusion of ignorance, thereafter we can see our pure Self !
My spouse is very violent. He hits me, forces on me , threatens me now and again with abuse. He does not respect anything I do. Neither my prayers or anything else. I cannot leave him because I cannot be a burden on my parents. I cannot be selfish as my kids need their father. Hence I want energy such that I can endure the suffering.
Pujya Maharajshri explains that everything we face in this life is the result of our own karmas. He also says that Gita Ji mentions that to suffer injustice is as bad as to inflict injustice. Gurujans say that Ram Naam gives a sadhak so much positivity and energy that a sadhak becomes fearless! With complete support of Sri Ram , a sadhak can either assert firmly or get the courage to walk away if circumstances so desire. A sadhak should be very confident of Sri Ram’s presence and His care and support! Gurujans bless and take care of all surrendered souls! The helplessness allows Divinity to take charge !
Prayers or intensive jaap helps. But with such violent situations a sadhak is always in fear. But still , Gurujans stress, that Ram Naam, gives strength, Gurujans in tatwa form provide support , such that a sadhak can think rationally and clearly so as to take decisions that will benefit one’s sadhna and provide a better environment for the children. Gurujans like a sadhak to be like a soldier that can take up any challenge. To maintain one’s self respect and one who can stand up to what is right, is actual Ram Naam sadhna !
My husband suffered a loss of money through somebody. He goes into depression. I do prayers, but too get frustrated many times.
Pujya Gurujans explain that , loss and gain in life are all due to our karmas. We need to face these things with patience and calm attitude. But this patience and calmness can be achieved from the energy of sadhna. Increased jaap, increased Simran, increased Shri Amritvani paath provides us with positive energy and helps sail through these times successfully. Prayers for monetary gain are not recommended by Gurujans. Prayers for peace , prayers for strength are the need of the hour. Prayers for the other person to be forgiven also helps heal one faster !
Pujya Gurudev asked me to remain in satsang always,as I told Him that I am happiest in satsang ( or To stay away from the world) How is it possible?
Gurujans explain that Satsang does not mean the weekly Sunday satsang or daily morning satsang. Satsang : sat – sang : being with the truth , means to be always connected with the Source or in other words incessant Simran. Every moment of the day, while the body is busy doing varied works, the mind needs to be fixed with the Source, with Ram with Divinity !
Pujya Maharajshri explains that the world is in our minds. It is in our minds that we get hurt, suffer mental pain, suffer negativities, suffer comparisons, competitions etc etc . So staying away from the world does not mean living like a recluse or not meeting with people. Staying away from the world means to shun the world from our mind. Pujya Swamiji Maharajshri has written in Shri Amritvani that this world is the form of formless Lord. Each and everything here is Ram ! So where is the world? When everything on the outside is Ram , the only place that remains is our mind ! If we fill our mind with crores of Ram , the world will vanish and hence Pujya Maharajshri’s Divine words Be in satsang always or stay away from the world get justified!
Where has Pujya Maharajshri gone ? Oh ! Where shall I go to find you ?
Pujya Maharajshri explains that Guru never dies! Never ! And it’s very wrong to identify Them as bodies ! They are realized Souls, meaning, that One with Ram or Divinity! Hence as Ram is always there, like wise Realized saints are and will be always there ! It is our ignorance of identifying the Soul with the body that causes this pain and suffering .
Gurujans explain that For Gurujans after They leave Their body , it’s the same as if They were in the body! For Them it does not matter. Only thing that changes is that They are now with each one of Their disciples and are just a call away. They surround the Soul of the disciple in the form of Gurutatwa and lead to the advancement of the disciple’s soul from within. Gurujans explain that They can be found in all our bhav or emotions. In tears that flow out of rememberance or out of love or gratitude, it’s Their signature of Their presence. The thoughts that remember Them, call out to Them , love Them , are They Themselves remembering us! The prayers we offer for others, the compassion that arises in us are all through them! The urge to do more sadhna or to meet Them or to have Their Darshan is all through Them. Hence They are present in our very being, every thought and every bhav. Pujya Maharajshri says that They cannot leave their disciples as They love Them way more than the disciple can even imagine !
All at Gurujans Lotus feet !